Guys who are unsuccessful with women who are ready to make the change to a guy, who is successful with women, have a choice to make. You can choose to be a guy who seduces women or a guy who attracts women. Each has its pro's and cons for the guy just now learning how to be successful with women. In the end most guys will choose to learn both even though at the beginning its best to choose one as the springboard to dive right into the other. Men who choose to seduce women first in general are going to be guys looking to get laid quickly. Any good book on how to seduce women should do the trick on this one.

Pros-At first you will find that you have the ability to make women very horny real quick and easy. Cons- When you seduce a woman the magic wears off about the 2nd or 3rd date at the latest and if you don't have something else going for you the women will not stick around. Men who choose to attract women first in general are going to be men who can get laid sometimes just not often are with quality women. Pros- Improving Yourself in the long run is going to attract higher quality women to you naturally and make your life with women a whole lot easier.

Cons- Lots of hard work and a willingness to think outside the box. Results are not going to be realized till perhaps a few weeks down the road and the changes are so subtle that you might not even notice them, until someone else points out the significant changes that you have made months down the road. When it comes to success with women choosing between first becoming a man who learns how to seduce women or attract women is going to depend on how horny you are. If all you want is casual sex and one night stands then starting off learning how to seduce women is the right choice for you. However, if you want to get a quality woman in your life you need to learn how to attract women.